Red Light Center describes itself by saying,stay in and 'party' in virtual worlds, such as Red Light Center, that let you date, socialize and partake

The Red Light Center describes itself by saying, "The downturn of the economy is affecting Americans all over the country. Skyrocketing gas and food prices has lead many Americans to stay in and 'party' in virtual worlds, such as Red Light Center, that let you date, socialize and partake in risqué activities without even leaving your house. Red Light Center has seen a 400% traffic increase since last year, with users totaling more than 2 million." human race is lazy. If everything is not right there at our fingertips in this technologically-run world then we want nothing to do with it and cast it aside. Does this pathetic lifestyle work when it comes to dating? Some of you may be thinking, "How can dating have anything to do with technology other than finding a date on a website?" Well, go figure, some creepy organization created the "Red Light Center," which is online dating, but taken to the literal level. The idea is that you, as a member of the Red Light Center, make an avatar that represents who you are, find another avatar that seems compatible, and then go on a cyber date. Has society really reached this low of a social level where we do not even go out with real people in the real world? Is it really more preferable to sit behind the security blanket of a computer screen and hope that the other pathetic dateless fool on the other side might be attracted to your avatar? That is sick! Technology has obviously ruined all intimacy within society. At this rate we might as well date, get married, and live our lives over the computer so that we may all turn into mind-numbed, fat, technology-run robots. Where is the human connection in this? Where is the spark between two people? It is impossible to make a real connection with a computer cartoon over computer dinner and computer sex. This is no way to live. The excuse that dating is too expensive and that it saves time and money to go on dates online is a cop out. Meeting another human being for coffee will cost no more than seven dollars and meeting someone in general for conversation is absolutely free. If this is what the human race is moving towards then I am ashamed. I feel as if the only thing technology could not take away from us is the ability to interact, to look someone in the eye and really hear what he or she is saying. But, if every ounce of human interaction can be done over a computer screen then the line between reality and fantasy will become more and more blurred. Yes, I will admit I do spend a lot of time on Facebook, e-mail, and other various online activities, but I would trade all of that for a day out, face-to-face with my friends. We cannot be dependent on technology to guide us through life, because when a human being and an avatar begin to represent the same thing, social customs as we know them could disappear forever.

Women feel bad about having one-night stands

Women feel bad about having one-night stands – and will consider romping with a man only if they think there is a chance it will lead to a long-term relationship, according to a new research.According to Professor Anne Campbell from Durham University in the UK, the negative feelings reported by women after one-night stands suggest that they are not well adapted to fleeting sexual encounters.Men are more likely to reproduce and therefore to benefit from numerous short-term partners.
For women, however, quality seems to be more important than quantity. Also for women, finding partners of high genetic quality is a stronger motivator than sheer number, and it is commonly believed that women are more willing to have casual sex when there is a chance of forming a long-term relationship.Overall women"s feelings were more negative than men"s. Eighty per cent of men had overall positive feelings about the experience compared to 54 per cent of women. The study found that men were more likely than women to secretly want their friends to hear about it and to feel successful because the partner was desirable to others.The predominant negative feeling reported by women was regret at having been "used". Women were also more likely to feel that they had let themselves down and were worried about the potential damage to their reputation if other people found out.Women found the experience less sexually satisfying and, contrary to popular belief, they did not seem to view taking part in casual sex as a prelude to long-term relationships.

If you have beautiful and strong hair, then you're successful with women.

Hunk George Clooney has revealed that his sex appeal lies in his hair. In an interview with In Touch magazine, the actor said that being sexy is a big responsibility and he enjoys the pressure thoroughly. Clooney also revealed that when it comes to impressing women, the only thing things works for him is his hair.
"(It''s) mostly the usual stuff. What does it take to appeal to women," The Daily Telegraph quoted him, as saying. "I can only talk about my own experiences. With me, it's the hair. If you have beautiful and strong hair, then you're successful with women. "I spend at least three or four hours a day in the bathroom. Being sexy day and night is a big responsibility. And I like taking it," he added.

Sonja Walker used to have sex with men until her mid-20s, but it wasn’t until she began penetrating other women that she finally started experiencing

Sonja Walker used to have sex with men until her mid-20s, but it wasn’t until she began penetrating other women that she finally started experiencing an orgasm regularly.“Of course guys would penetrate me, but it just didn’t do anything for me the way I was expecting,” Walker said. “But once I started strapping up and positioning it just right, I get taken care of.”Wearing a harness and a strap-on dildo has been an empowering experience for Walker, who said she has no desire to be a man or have an actual penis.“It finally felt like I’m in control of my body and my feelings, I can decide to have an orgasm if I want to,” Walker said. “I’ve heard that lesbian sex is supposed to be boring, but it’s one of the best things to ever happen to me.”Browsing the vibrators and nipple clamps with her girlfriend at Midtown Inserection, Walker said she also feels more comfortable exploring sex toys with a female partner.“I couldn’t imagine using any outside things with a guy I was with — too many insecurities and issues about [his] size being enough,” she said. “My woman isn’t threatened by anything I might buy, and I actually want her to get the things that are going to make her happy.”

Amy said she discovered her husband’s infidelity after she went for an afternoon nap and woke to find him having sex with a virtual girl called Modest

WOMAN obsessed with internet games is divorcing her husband after he had a virtual affair with a computer-generated female character, it emerged yesterday.Amy Pollard, 28, claims her 40-year-old husband David committed adultery with the animated woman he met in online game Second Life.Players create characters for themselves and live virtual lives, with jobs, relationships and children.Amy said their three-year marriage came to an end when she found David pretending to have sex and kissing several girls on the computer game.She filed for divorce, citing unreasonable behaviour.Amy said she discovered her husband’s infidelity after she went for an afternoon nap and woke to find him having sex with a virtual girl called Modesty McDonnell on the computer. We weren’t having cyber sex, just chatting and hanging out together.
David Pollard“I went mad,” she said. “I was so hurt. I just couldn’t believe what he’d done.“I looked at the computer screen and could see his character having sex with a female character. “It’s cheating as far as I’m concerned. But he didn’t see it as a problem, and couldn’t see why I was so upset. He said I was just making a big fuss and tried to make out it was my fault for not giving him enough attention.”Amy met David in an internet chatroom in May 2003 and after six months of emails and phone calls she moved from London to his flat in Newquay, Cornwall.

Try to meet everyone you start corresponding online with within 7 days

It may seem silly, but in order to make sure you don’t waste time sitting across from one loser after the next, here are a few ways to limit the number of freaks you meet and perhaps find a decent guy along the way.


Say Cheese Unless you are a professional photographer, make the investment to have your pictures done in a studio with an expert. Lighting can make or break all of us, so an in studio light controlled environment will make you look your best. Unfortunately when we date on-line first visual impression means a whole lot, so spend the money!

Stay In The Present Oh, and speaking of pictures, please, oh please, take a present-day one! So much misrepresentation occurs online, especially with regards to appearance. I have no idea why online daters do this– don’t they realize that in the very near future they are actually going to be meeting the person that they correspond with? When someone posts a picture that is 10 years old and they show up to a first date looking that much older, it is not a good thing.

Keep It Simple When writing your online profile, please don’t write an online biography! Learn to speak in sound bites. Sound bites, for all of you non-media savvy people, are short sentences that quickly, effectively, and memorably summarize what you are trying to say. A long, drawn out profile will only make you look egotistical. Plus, it’s a great idea to save all of these special facts for a face to face meeting.

Lost In Translation Don’t spend a lot of time using the instant messenger feature on these dating sites for deep meaningful conversation. A lot of online daters come down with a touch of what I like to call “Artificial Confidence.” This is when the user develops an overpowering sense of confidence, high self esteem and quick witted humor. This comes from the fact that it is a heck of a lot easier to be courageous, risqué and fun when you’re sitting behind your keyboard in the comfort of your own home. The big challenge is to see if your potential love interest can keep up his Don Juan rhetoric in person.

The Seven Day Rule Here is the most important rule of all, Try to meet everyone you start corresponding online with within 7 days. A lot of people online who masquerade as love seekers are only online to get their ego’s stroked through cyber-flirting with no intention of sitting face to face with the person they are corresponding with. The “cyber-affair” is empty and ultimately a big waste of time.

Up Close And Personal Arrange all of your online first face to face dates during the day at comfortable coffee shops that are close to your home. Plan to take a weekend and meet all of your love prospects on Saturday and Sunday afternoon of the same weekend. Schedule accordingly with 20 minute travel time between meeting places. Do not spend more than 45 minutes getting to know them. You will look like you have a life if you don’t sit there all afternoon. Meeting someone in person will give you a concrete idea of who you should pursue and who you should dismiss